In the most recent Atlantic, Caitlin Flanagan writes about "What Girls Want." Basically, she says that all girls want steadfast male devotion, like she did, which is why the Twilight series is so popular among teen female readers. She makes the horrible logical fallacy of assuming that her particular experience is universal; in doing so, she erases all possible variations of sexual maturation -- due to race, class, gender, socioeconomic status, size, disability, etc. -- that young girls experience. She especially erases variations in young girls' sexual preferences, assuming that they're all heteronormative. We ain't no monolith, you dipstick, and we don't all want slavishly adoring masculine suitors.
Common Stuff
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- "the rules" evisceration - 8 uses
- 1:6 genl - 64 uses
- 1:6 lust - 15 uses
- 3d freebies - 32 uses
- 50 shades trilogy - 31 uses
- absinthe - 40 uses
- accessories & food 1:6 lust - 33 uses
- accessories & food 1:6 mine - 79 uses
- accessories 1:3 - 19 uses
- adaptive aids & healing 1:6 - 37 uses
- ads - 67 uses
- adventures in scientific publishing - 20 uses
- advice - 16 uses
- alabama - 4 uses
- alchemic lab - 10 uses
- all my dolls - 25 uses
- all my sets - 8 uses
- all raw dolls - 1 use
- andrea - 60 uses
- angelsdoll - 18 uses
- anna - 11 uses
- anneka - 33 uses
- appropriation - 12 uses
- araminthe - 41 uses
- august - 20 uses
- barbie & kelly - 70 uses
- barrett - 6 uses
- bdsm - 27 uses
- beth and death - 8 uses
- bjd confessions - 16 uses
- bjds 1:3 - 1 use
- bjds 1:6 - 76 uses
- bjds genl - 61 uses
- body mods 1:3 - 1 use
- body mods 1:6 - 43 uses
- books i actually like - 20 uses
- books that piss me off - 36 uses
- brandeis - 7 uses
- buffy the vampire slayer & angel - 32 uses
- béatrice & delphine - 12 uses
- cars - 4 uses
- carter - 10 uses
- cats - 20 uses
- cemeteries - 43 uses
- cerebrus project - 11 uses
- cg - 28 uses
- charlie - 1 use
- chaz - 14 uses
- chow & baozha - 18 uses
- class - 9 uses
- clothes 1:3 - 48 uses
- clothes 1:6 - 68 uses
- compooper [+ cow manure 64] - 27 uses
- confession - 12 uses
- cory - 4 uses
- cross-dressing - 14 uses
- custom doll heads - 17 uses
- david bowie - 29 uses
- daz dolls - 109 uses
- daz lhf stuff - 48 uses
- daz misc. - 23 uses
- digital hair - 11 uses
- dillon - 5 uses
- disney - 16 uses
- doctor who - 11 uses
- doctor z - 6 uses
- doll club [burlington ma] - 35 uses
- doll conventions - 6 uses
- doll humor - 22 uses
- doll photostories - 53 uses
- dolls for dolls - 45 uses
- dolls genl - 38 uses
- dorothy - 15 uses
- elfdoll 14cm tinies & other - 15 uses
- elfdoll doona & hana - 16 uses
- ellery - 36 uses
- epona - 13 uses
- erased women - 22 uses
- eyeballs - 31 uses
- faceups - 115 uses
- fairyland - 18 uses
- fantasy movies - 10 uses
- fantasy tv - 64 uses
- fat - 9 uses
- fat dolls - 36 uses
- feminism yay - 18 uses
- flower - 29 uses
- food - 59 uses
- frank 1:6 - 18 uses
- frank bjd - 71 uses
- fringe - 10 uses
- gender policing - 20 uses
- geordie - 14 uses
- ginevra - 17 uses
- glamazon project - 7 uses
- gloravnia - 5 uses
- hair - 105 uses
- head mods 1:6 - 18 uses
- heteronormativity - 32 uses
- history books [also lhf books] - 40 uses
- homophobia - 25 uses
- identity politics humor - 16 uses
- illusion spirit - 10 uses
- infinity - 3 uses
- intellectum - 27 uses
- isabel - 92 uses
- isabel dead - 7 uses
- janvier jett - 37 uses
- jareth - 51 uses
- jareth 1.0 - 74 uses
- jareth 1:6 - 12 uses
- jareth project - 59 uses
- jareth's custom head - 16 uses
- jennifer 1:6 - 11 uses
- jujube - 11 uses
- junebug - 34 uses
- juniper - 4 uses
- labyrinth - 101 uses
- labyrinth humor - 6 uses
- lhf publicity - 26 uses
- lhf sarah - 6 uses
- life in vermont - 40 uses
- lola paprika - 40 uses
- love has fangs - 147 uses
- lucian - 26 uses
- lumberjack - 5 uses
- lumedoll lumelights - 22 uses
- mannequins & life-size dolls - 23 uses
- marriage equality - 18 uses
- mary sue - 13 uses
- megan - 9 uses
- mellifer - 29 uses
- miosgyny - 1 use
- mirrormask - 16 uses
- misogyny - 54 uses
- momoko - 14 uses
- movie reviews - 65 uses
- muggins - 13 uses
- muses - 66 uses
- music & music videos - 76 uses
- noodge - 23 uses
- notdoll - 19 uses
- novella - 29 uses
- obitsu jennifer - 18 uses
- objectification - 20 uses
- paracosms - 14 uses
- parody - 27 uses
- pearlene - 15 uses
- peekaboo - 5 uses
- people of color [incl chs & dolls] - 51 uses
- people with disabilities - 69 uses
- peter - 41 uses
- photography - 61 uses
- pippilotta - 7 uses
- podcasts - 22 uses
- polly - 12 uses
- precious little - 17 uses
- prunella - 4 uses
- queer books - 7 uses
- queer yay - 36 uses
- racism - 52 uses
- rape culture - 40 uses
- reproductive politics - 14 uses
- rocky horror picture show - 16 uses
- rori - 8 uses
- sarah bjd - 52 uses
- sardonix - 78 uses
- sardonix 1.0 - 9 uses
- semi-realistic tv - 26 uses
- sets 1:6 lust - 39 uses
- sets 1:6 mine - 94 uses
- sexist stereotypes - 101 uses
- signature style - 86 uses
- soom faery legend - 34 uses
- soom mini gem - 22 uses
- souldoll soul littles - 8 uses
- stupid cis people - 43 uses
- stupid straight people - 34 uses
- submit - 34 uses
- sylvia - 8 uses
- tara - 2 uses
- thalia - 13 uses
- theophany - 13 uses
- therianthropes other - 41 uses
- therianthropic dolls - 29 uses
- timonium - 26 uses
- trains - 13 uses
- trans books - 16 uses
- trans tv - 9 uses
- trans yay - 18 uses
- transmisogyny - 19 uses
- transphobia - 30 uses
- twilight saga etc. - 35 uses
- twins - 13 uses
- uyoo jennifer - 28 uses
- vampire books - 56 uses
- vampire movies - 22 uses
- vampire mythos - 16 uses
- vampire tv - 30 uses
- velvette [janet too!] - 13 uses
- vermont doll lovers - 25 uses
- volks - 29 uses
- web comics - 29 uses
- will 1:6 - 41 uses
- will bjd - 59 uses
- will daz - 56 uses
- women's experiences - 47 uses
- words - 75 uses
- writing [including freelance] - 29 uses
- writing humor - 12 uses
- xagadoll lara - 11 uses
- xandy - 14 uses
- yamarrah - 43 uses
- zephque - 9 uses
- zinnia pascale & zombies - 36 uses
- zombieville - 23 uses
- zombieville planning - 20 uses
Style Credit
- Base style: Practicality by
timeasmymeasure - Theme: Decadence by nornoriel